{"id":3745,"date":"2018-02-20T10:11:50","date_gmt":"2018-02-20T07:11:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.happymeal.me\/?p=3745"},"modified":"2018-02-20T10:11:50","modified_gmt":"2018-02-20T07:11:50","slug":"sohbet-telefonlari-ayriligina-merhem-olsun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/?p=3745","title":{"rendered":"Sohbet Telefonlar\u0131 Ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na merhem olsun"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Bir \u00e7ok ayr\u0131l\u0131k ya\u015fayan sohbet telefonlar\u0131<\/strong> <\/a>kullan\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 bir yara band\u0131 olarak yeni bir ili\u015fkiye ba\u015flamay\u0131 do\u011fru buluyor. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7in biten ili\u015fkinin ard\u0131ndan bir otopsi s\u00fcreci tan\u0131nmal\u0131 ve ya\u015fan\u0131lan ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve s\u00fcresi ne olursa olsun ya\u015fan\u0131lan ili\u015fkinin taziyesinin tutulmas\u0131 gerekir. Biten ili\u015fkinin s\u00fcresi onun taziyesinin s\u00fcresini g\u00f6stermez. \u00d6nemli olan ne kadar \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n de\u011fil, ne kadar payla\u015f\u0131mlar ve etkilenmeler oldu\u011fudur. Yani s\u00fcrenin uzunlu\u011fu de\u011fil, ili\u015fkinin biti\u015f \u015fekli ve s\u00fcre\u00e7te ya\u015fananlara g\u00f6re taziye belirlenmelidir. Taziye dedi\u011fimiz, otopsili olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Mesela ; bu ili\u015fkide nerede hata yapt\u0131m, nas\u0131l bir tarz\u0131m var, tarz\u0131m\u0131n kazand\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131 ve kaybettirdikleri neler?, biten ili\u015fkide hatalar\u0131m var m\u0131, elimden geleni yapt\u0131m m\u0131, neleri sonradan fark ettim, neleri g\u00f6rmezden geldim vb. gibi sorgulamalar otopsinin i\u00e7eri\u011fidir. E\u011fer biten ili\u015fkinin otopsisini yapmazsan\u0131z, ayn\u0131 biti\u015fleri, ayn\u0131 tercihleri ayn\u0131 s\u00fcre\u00e7leri farkl\u0131 ki\u015filer ile tekrarlars\u0131n\u0131z. Yani senaryonuz de\u011fi\u015fmez sadece akt\u00f6r\/aktristler de\u011fi\u015fir. Ba\u015fka biriyle denemek, size fayda sa\u011flamaz. Ayn\u0131 y\u00f6ntemlerle farkl\u0131 sonu\u00e7 alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 umman\u0131n delilik oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyen Einstein in s\u00f6z\u00fc bunu \u00f6zetler. Ayn\u0131 sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 almak ise ili\u015fkiye ve kar\u015f\u0131 cinse olan g\u00fcveninizi azalt\u0131r, inan\u00e7s\u0131zla\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fki i\u00e7in ki\u015finin enerjik olmas\u0131, bir ili\u015fkinin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc ta\u015f\u0131yacak g\u00fcce ula\u015fmas\u0131 laz\u0131m. Kar\u015f\u0131dakinin naz\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekememek, fedakarl\u0131k yapamamak, mutluluk veren birine \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc yans\u0131tmak sizin taziyenizin bitmedi\u011fini g\u00f6sterir. Sevgili sohbet telefonlar\u0131<\/strong> <\/a>kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131 bir ili\u015fkinin de bitmesinden sonra zaman vermezseniz eskisi ile yenisi birbirine girer. Hatta gitit\u011finiz kafeye bile kimle gitti\u011finizi kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rabilirsiniz. Fakat genel ili\u015fkileri inceledi\u011fimizde, ayr\u0131l\u0131k ac\u0131s\u0131 ya\u015famak istemeyen ya da ac\u0131ya dayanamayanlar k\u0131sa s\u00fcre i\u00e7inde yeni ili\u015fkiye at\u0131lmak isterler. Buna sosyolojik olarak da \u201c\u00e7ivi \u00e7iviyi s\u00f6ker\u201d denir J. (Oysa fiziksel olarak da iyi \u00e7ak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir \u00e7iviyi ba\u015fka bir \u00e7iviyle \u00e7\u0131karamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Biten ili\u015fkinin duygusal ac\u0131s\u0131na ve sonu\u00e7lar\u0131na katlanamayan ki\u015fi, farkl\u0131 bir bedende teselli arar. Asl\u0131nda yeni beden bir pansumand\u0131r. Yani eski yaray\u0131 iyile\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in vard\u0131r. Yara iyile\u015ftikten sonra ili\u015fkinin devam\u0131 ise genelde biti\u015f bazen tesad\u00fcfi uyum olabilir.<\/p>\n

Ne kimseye pansuman olun ne de kimsenin yara band\u0131 olun.<\/p>\n

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Bir \u00e7ok ayr\u0131l\u0131k ya\u015fayan sohbet telefonlar\u0131 kullan\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 bir yara band\u0131 olarak yeni bir ili\u015fkiye ba\u015flamay\u0131 do\u011fru buluyor. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7in biten ili\u015fkinin ard\u0131ndan bir otopsi s\u00fcreci tan\u0131nmal\u0131 ve ya\u015fan\u0131lan ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve s\u00fcresi ne olursa olsun ya\u015fan\u0131lan ili\u015fkinin taziyesinin tutulmas\u0131 gerekir. Biten ili\u015fkinin s\u00fcresi onun taziyesinin s\u00fcresini g\u00f6stermez. \u00d6nemli olan ne kadar \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n de\u011fil, ne […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[11,43,44,30],"class_list":["post-3745","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-genel","tag-sicak-sohbet-hatlari","tag-sohbet-telefonlari","tag-sohbet-telefonu","tag-telefon-sex-hatti"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3745","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3745"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3745\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3745"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3745"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3745"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}