{"id":391,"date":"2017-10-27T11:47:17","date_gmt":"2017-10-27T08:47:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.happymeal.me\/?p=391"},"modified":"2017-10-27T11:47:17","modified_gmt":"2017-10-27T08:47:17","slug":"tum-sosyal-problemleri-cozume-kavusturacak-sihirli-formul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/?p=391","title":{"rendered":"T\u00fcm sosyal problemleri \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme kavu\u015fturacak sihirli form\u00fcl"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"tel:00322588933\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-303 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/www.happyny.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/ceyda.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"350\" height=\"450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/ceyda.jpg 350w, https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/ceyda-39x50.jpg 39w, https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/ceyda-117x150.jpg 117w, https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/ceyda-78x100.jpg 78w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cSen benim ne ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 biliyor musun?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kimi zaman i\u00e7imizden sessiz bir \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131kla, kimi zaman da kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakine var g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fczle s\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz, ya sorunun ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131ndaki s\u0131zd\u0131rmada ya da sonuca vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz o anda en rafine yard\u0131m isteme \u015feklidir bu soru c\u00fcmlesi.<\/p>\n<p>Peki bir sorun ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman ne yapar\u0131z? Ka\u00e7al\u0131m m\u0131? Yoksa m\u00fccadele mi edelim? Sizce m\u00fccadele edersek o problemi \u00e7\u00f6zebilir miyiz? Yoksa ilk anda duygu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ya da davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla m\u0131 yan\u0131t bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Yoksa problem \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcnde s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kmak sonuca daha m\u0131 kolay ula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Asl\u0131nda hayatlar\u0131m\u0131z olduk\u00e7a karma\u015f\u0131k ve bir o kadar dinamiktir. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z an\u0131lar, olaylar, deneyimler nefes almam\u0131z\u0131 anlamland\u0131rmaktad\u0131r. Bazen bu durum bizi bir sorun yuma\u011f\u0131na da itebilir. Yani sorunlar ne kadar karma\u015f\u0131ksa ki\u015finin ba\u015f edebilme d\u00fczeyi de azal\u0131r. Sosyal ili\u015fkiler i\u00e7inde ya\u015fan\u0131lan \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar, i\u00e7ine girdi\u011fimiz roller, ruhsal sorunlar, yetersizlik, karar verememe ya da toplumsal sorunlar \u00e7ok \u00e7e\u015fitli g\u00f6z\u00fckse de ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f nedenleri genelde ayn\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Peki \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm nedir? <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sorunlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 3 farkl\u0131 yolla \u00e7\u00f6zebiliriz:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Zihinsel<\/li>\n<li>Duygusal<\/li>\n<li>Davran\u0131\u015fsal<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Bir ki\u015fi sorunlar\u0131na ilk olarak <strong>duygusal<\/strong> olarak yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman problemin \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcnde kendisini olduk\u00e7a y\u0131prat\u0131r. Ki\u015fi e\u011fer bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te tek ba\u015f\u0131na ise fazla miktarda duygusal bo\u015falmalar ya\u015fayabilmektedir.<\/p>\n<p>Davran\u0131\u015fsal problem \u00e7\u00f6zmeye yakla\u015fan ki\u015fi de ise hareket \u00f6n plandad\u0131r. Sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zebilir fakat d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve hisler geri planda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan problem temelinde tam anlam\u0131yla \u00e7\u00f6zemeyip sonras\u0131nda pi\u015fmanl\u0131k ya\u015fayabilir.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0131pk\u0131 sosyal sorunlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da bir matematik, geometri \u00e7\u00f6zer gibi ilk etapta <strong>zihinsel <\/strong>olarak yakla\u015f\u0131r isek tan\u0131mlama, muhakeme etme, analiz ve detayland\u0131rma \u00f6n plana \u00e7\u0131kar. Psikolojik sorunlar\u0131n k\u00f6keni konu\u015fma ve payla\u015f\u0131m eksikli\u011fine dayan\u0131r. Buna son vermek, ya da etkilerinden kurtulmak i\u00e7in ileti\u015fim ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 gidermeniz gerekir. Bunun ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 konu\u015fmakt\u0131r. \u015eayet bunu sa\u011flaya bilece\u011finiz bir ortam\u0131n\u0131z yoksa canl\u0131 sohbet hatlar\u0131n\u0131 kullanmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Konu\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131z asla kay\u0131t alt\u0131na al\u0131nmaz. Canl\u0131 sohbet hatlar\u0131nda bilgi payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 yoktur, m\u00fc\u015fteri gizlili\u011fi \u00f6n planda tutulur. Bu kad\u0131n partner numaralar\u0131 tamamen \u00f6zel kullan\u0131m hatlar\u0131 olup, istedi\u011finiz konuda istedi\u011finiz zaman konu\u015fabilirsiniz. Hatlar tamamen g\u00fcvenli olup yedi yirmi d\u00f6rt hizmet halindedir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cSen benim ne ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 biliyor musun?\u201d Kimi zaman i\u00e7imizden sessiz bir \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131kla, kimi zaman da kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakine var g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fczle s\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz, ya sorunun ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131ndaki s\u0131zd\u0131rmada ya da sonuca vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz o anda en rafine yard\u0131m isteme \u015feklidir bu soru c\u00fcmlesi. Peki bir sorun ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman ne yapar\u0131z? Ka\u00e7al\u0131m m\u0131? Yoksa m\u00fccadele mi edelim? Sizce m\u00fccadele edersek [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[13,34,28,12,8],"class_list":["post-391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-genel","tag-bayan-sohbet-hatlari","tag-canli-seks-sohbet","tag-canli-sohbet-telefon","tag-sicak-sohbet-hatti","tag-sohbet-hatlari"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/391","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=391"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/391\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=391"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=391"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.happyny.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=391"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}